Thursday, July 9, 2015

Kitchen Remodel Update

I've had two requests for updates on our kitchen remodel and finally got around to taking a few pictures last week.

The short answer on the kitchen remodel is that I freaking love it.  I still find myself lovingly patting my counter tops and marveling at my view all the way across the living room from my spot by the stove. I love everything about it- every cabinet, knob, tile, appliance, and square inch of marble.  I seriously wouldn't change a single thing, so even though it was a HUGE hassle I hope to never have to live through again (6 weeks with 3 kids, a late-coaching husband, and no kitchen was truly, truly terrible), it was worth every single terrible, dusty, endless day.

Let's take a tour. I have notes.

Oh, cubbies of my heart.  They remain my second favorite part of the whole project. They are the first thing you see when you walk in from our driveway side door and it is the home of SO MANY things that would be on the floor and piled in corners elsewhere.


I love how perfectly they fit the space and that we saved the window by adding them to the plan and I love most that they hold all the things. I really hate stuff on the floor.

I also love this picture frame I repurposed from our stairway walls in Austin) that I had James spray paint silver and updated with more recent family pictures. See that picture of James and I in the middle? That was our honeymoon in Jamaica 10 years ago- can't wait to get an update!


The pantry is my very number 1 favorite thing. I love that we did the frosted glass door, love the miles of shelving (or 8 feet of shelving; same thing) and the storage for more of the things.


I swear it looks more organized in person than it does in this picture.


And now, the kitchen.  Isn't it beautiful? I still can't believe those above-window cabinets weren't there; that the counter used to end at the sink; the the whole right wall was empty-- so much wasted space!


This is the wall we added- it forms the back of the pantry and now holds our microwave and some new upper cabinets. And after six months of daily use I can say that I LOVE LOVE the double oven. I love the smaller top oven that I use 90% of the time. Its smaller size means it heats up so fast and feels so much more efficient. The bottom oven is great when I need two shelves or am roasting something tall, and I love being able to cook two things at two temperatures (or with two smells- like the chicken for dinner and the cookies for dessert). And I love most that it only takes up the room of a single oven. I can't recommend this style enough. The gas stove is also great- it has the same measurements as our old one, but has so much more usable space, including a fifth burner with griddle. Love. (Also love having a functional microwave that isn't dorm-sized and hidden behind a cabinet)


I specifically designed these two cabinets and I love them. The top one holds my most used spices, oils, and vinegars. It's a good use of small space. The bottom one holds all my cutting boards and baking pans. I had them remove the drawer from the plan so the cabinet would be tall enough to fit my sheet pans in the bottom section and my biggest cutting boards on top. Love them.


We didn't do many custom cabinet features- I was worried about making everything too specific, both for us and future owners. I also didn't want to do too many glass or open cabinets because I didn't want to worry about things looking perfect behind the doors, but I do love our one set of glass door cabinets for our glasses. And I love our little two-open-shelf solution for the cookbooks and a picture frame in the space underneath the upper window cabinets and glass cabinets.


The open end cabinet storage for our lunch boxes and wine bottles has also been great. The lunch boxes never had a good home, and even though there's room in the pantry, I knew the likelihood of them getting put to bed there every night when we knew we'd need them again in the morning was very slim. They do always make it to their cubby and I get to be happy that they're not on the counter.  Plus Cora loves to steal them and carry them on her shoulder like purses and it's so adorable, for once I'm glad something is at her fingertips.


So that's it for special cabinets. On to drawers. I LOVE drawers. I only had four in our old kitchen and now I have MANY. I use them for everything I always hated trying to arrange into cabinets. Like kiddie cups. I LOVE having a drawer for all the plastic cups in our lives. The kids can reach it and get their own water and I'm not wasting space and trying to stand up Cora's weird shaped sippy cups in our cabinets.


I use the bottom drawer of that stack for the plastic plates and bowls, the top drawer has all the little glass containers we use for lunches, and the trash drawer is probably my favorite thing after the pantry and cubbies.


Someday, when plastic divider trays aren't a part of our lives, I can use the drawers for my baking accessories (currently in a bin in the pantry) and loose leaf tea collection. Drawers are the best.

On the peninsula I have drawers for our pots and pans and glass storage. I also love these drawers. Also housed in the peninsula is a stack of four smaller drawers for utensils, measuring cups and spoons, ziplocs, boxes of foil, wax paper, and everything else.



Also the beverage fridge. I love this fridge. It has freed up SO much room in our main fridge by removing all beverages and I love that we're always ready to go when we have people over to swim or hang out. I've also used the shelves to hold a quarter sheet cake and cupcakes for the kids' parties. It is so handy.


Oh wait, another cabinet. I love this giant box on top of the fridge. It now houses all our Costco paper products- kleenex, paper towels, and toilet paper. These items used to live in Cora's closet, which was always a problem we when needed them after she went to sleep, and at some point we were going to need to use that closet space anyway.


Other little things we added and decisions we had to make- we upgraded to the "panel ends" for the cabinets and I'm so glad. It wasn't very much in the overall budget and I think the impact is so much more custom. We also did the panels on the drawers, which I love too. I'm very glad we went for both extras instead of trying to save a couple hundred dollars and regretting it later.


One of my favorite little touches is the plug I bought at Home Depot that has two USB ports built in. We frequently charge our phones here and I like not having the have the little brick using up a plug.

A few people have asked me about having marble in the kitchen. I admit that I fell in love with the look, designed my whole kitchen around it, and then did basically zero research into the material because I didn't want to read anything that would force me to change my mind on using it. So willful blindness was my decorating strategy. And I do love it. I love the great sweeps of movement and randomness in the natural stone and love the clean white background that goes so well with our bright-white-trimmed 1940's house. Design-wise, it makes the kitchen for me, so even when I had some doubts about the softness of marble, I decided to go for it- it was a feature element, and if it was the one thing we regretted, we could change it in a few years to something more durable like quartz or silestone (which are nice, but I didn't love the uniformity and smaller dots/patterns; I love how some of the veins of our marble slab travel all the way across it).

But as it's turned out, marble isn't a big deal. You can't put hot pans directly on it, but you aren't supposed to with marble either. If you leave acids or high-pigment items like tomatoes, citrus, or red wine for too long, they'll stain, but after you clean it, the stain will eventually fade to near invisibility. I chipped an edge of the peninsula with a champagne bottle the first night we moved in and was paranoid after, but further abuse has not resulted in any injuries. I am more vigilant about foods staying out on top of it, but it doesn't bother me because it still makes my inner house designer to smile when I see it. And the few stains just add character that I don't think anyone else can see but me.

Our other big design choice was the two-tone upper and lower cabinets and I really like how that came together. I think all white or all grey would have been too much and I'm SO glad I liked the grey paint we picked out (and by "we" I mean me, with James enthusiastically up-voting whichever one I was liking at the moment; he was actually not very helpful).


And, finally, I love this view. I love coming home at the end of the day and chopping up dinner while the kids color or do homework or just sit and chat with me at the bar. I love that Cora can run her laps and play with her lunchbox purses and I'm not shooing everyone away because I can't open the oven if they're with me in the galley. It's just a kitchen, but it has seriously changed my life.


Update Updated!

While washing dishes this morning I remembered two of my other favorite things: (1) the push button for the disposal, and (2) our low divider sink.


The push button is fun and frees up a switch for something else and the low divider sink means you can wash a sheet pan or giant frying pan without splashing water up everywhere, but I still get my separate sink compartment so all the tiny food storage containers in my life have a place to dry. Everyone is winning.


Also, I got a question about where the cubbies are located. We had them built into the wall we added to create the pantry. That space wasn't used in our previous kitchen, and our laundry room is part of our master suite so we don't have a "mudroom" type space for backpacks and shoes, so I took a foot away from the pantry and had the contractor build in the cubbies for the space when you first walk in the side door. That's the door we use 98% of the time (bc we part at the top of our super long driveway, past the driveway gate), but no one else who visits our house would do so, making it the perfect thing to greet us when we walk in the door.


The kids offload their coats and backpacks and shoes, and I get to smile knowing all that stuff isn't spread throughout the house or on the floor. I literally stood over the contractor's shoulder while he built them because I had such a picture in my mind of what I wanted them to be and they turned out perfectly! And we got to save the side window that was original to the house. Again, everyone is winning.

Monday, July 6, 2015

Forth Worth of July

We spent our first Fourth of July in Fort Worth (last year we were watching/helping my sister get married!) and we had so much fun! Friday was a "home day" as Claire calls them and James and I luxuriated in the awesomeness that always is a weekday in which neither of us actually has to work. If we could be dual stay at home parents I feel like we could really rock it. We played and swam and cooked and erranded and exercised and still had time to be almost bored. Other than the Great Poop Incident while James was working out, it was a completely perfect day.

Sugar Cookie Fruit Pizza!

On Saturday, I got up early to start our bbq chicken for the pool party and headed off to yoga. James got the kids dressed in their matching 4th of July shirts from my Grandma Mary and I did a quick check on the chicken while Cora loaded up on necklaces. Girl always has an accessory.


We got a few pictures in front of the tree, but Cora had zero interest in looking at the camera. Less than zero really, she deliberately looked away while cackling to herself.

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We walked to the neighborhood parade that would be passing by the end of our street in a few minutes. Or rather, we walked while the kids ran- Cora in particular was SO excited that I really wondered what she thought was about to happen.


I feel like a line of vintage cars throwing candy at her was not it.


She glared at the old cars before deciding to wave at the new shiny ones. That's my girl.


Thirty minutes later, she drunkenly stumbled home, clutching her single piece of candy and singing to herself the whole way. I feel like her college game will be strong.


She was still clutching her candy an hour later, and it was so adorable I kept taking pictures of her while I party prepped.


The big kids went with James to his pool for its Fourth of July Party and I cooked and baked and cleaned and set up patriotic streamers around the pool area. Finally all was ready, Cora was sleeping, James, the kids, and all our guests were running late and I was drinking my first margarita in my stars and stripes bikinis with Cora's stolen necklaces. Back in the day, my game was also strong.


Our friends arrived- two families we're close with (both colleagues of mine; I work with really awesome people who are married to awesome people)- and suddenly we have 6 adults and 8 kids and it was a party! All the kids got along perfectly and swam and swam and ate and swam some more.


We took advantage of having guests AND having both James and I in the pool (rare as a unicorn sighting; despite our amphibious backgrounds) and got a family picture.


My arms were already super tired from holding Cora's head above water. I have never met a baby so DETERMINED to breathe underwater. All she does is dunk herself and then smile while she chokes as I pull her up. It's exhausting. I finally got out and bribed her with unlimited animal crackers if we could stop for a while.


It worked.


Dinner was great- I made this BBQ pulled chicken (so good I will never again look for a similar recipe; absolutely perfect), doubling the recipe with 5 lbs. of chicken and 2x the sauce. I cooked it on high for 4.5 hours, shredded it, and then left it on warm for the 4 hours until the party started. I served it with Costco's mini pretzel buns (the best!), my mom's vermicelli salad, watermelon, veggie tray, chips, and brownies and fruit pizza for dessert. And a Costco box of party poppers. None of which I managed to capture on film.


Our friends stayed till almost dark and then a gaggle of very tired children fell asleep within minutes. Being up past 8 is a rarity for our crew, so I don't even think they remember getting in bed that night, but they were up at 6:30 ready for more. I was up anyway (freaking insomnia) so I went out with my hot tea to watch them swim at 7:15. James ambled out about 30 minutes later so we decided to hit up our favorite downtown park before it got too hot.



We're into our fourth year in this charming little city and we just feel more and more lucky to call it home.


Happy belated 4th everyone!

Friday, July 3, 2015

Shitshow with Tequila Curtain Calls

You guys, today I caught in a shitstorm. A real one, involving actual shit. I'm on my third margarita and I still don't think I can ever unsee the things (or unfeel the things... oh the feels of the things) or UNSMELL the things I have seen and felt and smelled today.


Yes, it's this one's fault

Now I have been a parent for 8 years, but I have never had a diaper blowout situation, and I have never had poop in places that aren't (1) diapers or (2) toilets. Maybe we've been unnaturally blessed, but potty training was never a big deal and I've changed maybe a handful of sheets that got wet overnight in the early days (all with Landon; Claire never had an accident because she was a potty training unicorn), but never ever poop. Poop is bad enough when you change it in a sterile field with fluffy wipes and pillowy soft organic diapers.


All my favorite children are potty trained.

But today, poop and I met on the rocky path that surrounds our pool.

It all started out well. The big kids were splashing and Cora was ordering everyone around.


She was wearing her adorable Honest Co. watermelon swim diaper and Claire's old cherry swim suit. I had my water, music, kindle, and another new Old Navy bikini because each piece was $6 last weekend and how could I not indulge in that? Plus it's pretty and looks unusually expensive for ON.


Cora looked cute too.

So all was well when Landon exclaimed, "Cora smells!" I ambled over, barely bothering to set down my kindle, and pulled down her suit all haphazard and casual-like to check things out when a turd fell out. Just fell out. I don't want to ruin your evening, but the situation digressed quickly. It was chunky and soupy and enormous in quantity. I faced terrible choices- run inside with the smelly leaking baby? leave the baby next to a water hazard to run inside for supplies? apply bleach directly or dilute with water first?

We're hosting a pool party tomorrow so I couldn't just throw her in the pool like I wanted to (cleanup was taking so long she'd started finger painting, finger painting with poop; my only goal became keeping it out of her mouth), so I used many wipes and then Tex decided the pile of wipes looked tasty so I had to get multiple layers of trash bags involved and oh my god there was STILL more poop. I sacrificed my shower in lieu of the pool and got Cora and I both clean. Then I cleaned the shower, and the pool deck, and the shower again, and the deck, and the swim suit and swim diaper, and now maybe the washing machine that washed the swim diaper?


Prior to the shitshow, I had been feeling all proud of myself for sipping my cucumber water instead of the margarita I really wanted. Well once I'd used up all our Chlorox, I made that pitcher of margaritas and I made it all for me. And then James pulled up 2 minutes later.

I've been slowly and steadily drinking my margaritas ever since. Now we're watching Jaws (and Jaws II, apparently). I'd never seen it before and I keep laughing and James doesn't think that's appropriate. He remains deathly afraid of sharks because of this movie. He is adorable.

I can't remember if I've shared my margarita recipe before, but as a gift for sitting through my terrible story, here is the best Party Margarita Recipe. Now this is not the very best margarita- that is at Polvo's Mexican Restaurant in Austin (second best are at Yucatan Taco Stand and Gloria's, here in Fort Worth). And my very favorite margarita is actually a classic mix of 2 oz. silver tequila + 1 oz. Cointreau + 1 oz. fresh lime juice, shaken with ice and strained into a martini glass (or back over fresh ice). But for an easy, throw it together for a group (or yourself) delicious pitcher of semi-slushy margaritas, this recipe is the best:

1 can frozen limeade
1 can tequila (use the empty can from the limeade)
1 can sprite (I always use diet)
1 Mexican beer (Corona is my fave)

1. Mix all ingredients together.
2. Pour over ice, add lime juice and salt if you want to be fancy. Drink!

May tomorrow be filled with more margaritas and much less poop. Happy almost 4th to you all!

Thursday, July 2, 2015

Stitch Fix: Fix the Third (plus a dress and new shoes)

Time for Stitch Fix Box #3! It came during the week of insanity (now multiple weeks ago) so I didn't get a chance to review it publicly. Luckily (or unluckily) the pieces were very clearly yes's or no's (mostly no's). As in the past, there was one item I absolutely loved and am so happy to have in my closet. But unlike my last one, I was at least pleased with each piece before trying them one. I could see where they fit in my style profile and felt that maybe someone (or a friendly computer) was reading my style profile and trying to match it.

And of course it remains super fun to get the box delivered and tear it open to try everything on. Unfortunately I tossed the packaging with the descriptions of each item and I can't seem to go back and see prior orders in my Stitch Fix profile, so I can't give you official descriptions. Here are my own.

BLUE/AQUA CHEVRON DRESS (XS, ~$48)


Liked the colors, and normally LOVE a shift dress (maxi dress and fit 'n flare dresses are abominations on my straight, hipless body type), but this one was just a little too loose and the material a little too thin. It either needed to hug my body more or it needed to be a stiffer material to maintain a straight shape.


It made for a beautiful nightgown though. If I wore nightgowns.

Verdict: SENT BACK.

NAVY STRIPEY FAUX WRAP DRESS (XS, ~60)


This dress was great in theory but epicly bad in execution. Too tight (after berating my stylist last time around when everything too big, of course I have two things in this round that were too small, just to confuse everyone), too short, too bunchy in the ruching, and too heavy in the fabric. This is what I would wear in an alternate universe if I were 15 years older, single, and a cougar heading out for a night on the prowl.


So, not a keeper.

Verdict: SENT BACK.

LAVENDER/AQUA HIGH LOW TANK (XS, ~45)


Cute colors and pattern, horrid fit. Way too tight across the chest and way too loose on the bottom. It's too bad because I really wanted to add those colors to my closet, but the top smashed my boobs and left me unable to take deep breaths and I think the next size up would have been too loose on the bottom. I don't like high/low styles with that huge of a difference between the fitted and loose portions.


No again.

Verdict: SENT BACK.

BLUE MODERN TANK (XS, ~45)


Love this tank. Love the pattern, fit, style, and unique colors.


Verdict: KEPT. Worn immediately out to dinner.


I've worn this tank three times since that day I got it, which is a re-wearing record for me, including to work on casual Friday with skinny jeans, a long pink and gold necklace, and brown wedges. I really love it for being a little different and incorporating navy, my favorite color.

NECKLACE TOO UGLY TO PICTURE (~$20)

Also included was a truly hideous and cheap necklace of a long gold chain with cheap plastic gold beads and five navy blue arrows. It weighed about 5 ounces and didn't even get its picture taken. Sorry ugly necklace.

CONCLUSION: Fix Four Scheduled

So Stitch Fix remains an elusive minx for me. I keep getting one thing I genuinely love (the dark purple dolman top from round 1; the orange/teal necklace from round 2; the blue modern top from round 3), so it keeps on feeling worthwhile. And it's so fun to get a box on your doorstep with five new potentially fabulous items to try on. Because why not? With another change of seasons coming up, maybe I'll get a box with multiple things I love. Or maybe I'll get a box with nothing I love and finally decide it's not worth the $20. But for as long as I get surprises and my closet gets a new addition that didn't require me to leave my house or going to a store, I say, fix me again!

POST SCRIPT

I waited so long to publish this I have another picture of me in my new favorite shirt. This was post several glasses of summer beer at a friend's house, so I'm even smiling which I normally don't do because I don't like my smile when I force it and selfies shouldn't stress you out.


I even found a necklace in the back of my necklace drawer with peach stones that match it perfectly! It was fate.

Today I spent the afternoon with Claire and when asked what she wanted to do she said "go to a dressing room in a grown-up store." Okay, then! I've been slowly replacing my wardrobe after I dropped another size post-Cora and Ann Taylor was having a 50% all sale items plus all full price dresses were $59.50, and they have huge dressing rooms, so off to AT we went. I tried on all the dresses and unfortunately they didn't have my size in one (Claire: "it's okay if it's a little big mom, because you're still growing"), so I ordered it online. We'll see. Isn't it beautiful though?


Then I bought this dress, which is very classic and fits absolutely perfectly.


I wanted to see how the length looked in heels, so I grabbed a pair to try on with it and ended up buying those too. They were gorgeous and only $29 in the store!


New outfits are the best and I've been very restrained on my shoe shopping since leaving the firm, so for $29 for such gorgeousness with a practical heel height and the only remaining box in my giant foot size?! It had to be done. Plus Claire loved them as much as I did and shared joy over a pair of shoes was part of our girls' day bonding. Can't wait to wear them! They'll be great with skinny jeans and a black top too. Yay shoes!

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*Referral links throughout the Stitch Fix part. If you try Stitch Fix and use this link, I get a referral credit and it won't cost you a thing! Maybe you will get more than one thing you love (like my friend Katie who seems to have an entire closet of amazing Stitch Fix items), though I must admit, I keep signing up for another month because the one thing is always worth it.