Landon, right now

I know I promised nursery pictures, and they are ready to go, but after working on Landon and his sister's baby books over the weekend, I feel a strong need to freeze time just for a moment on focus on Landon and what he's doing right now -- because this kid, this former baby who made me fear all future babies, is pretty much 33 lbs. of toddler perfection.

(newborn Landon in the framed scrapbook page I made two weeks ago; we've come a long way baby)

Work was light this past week due to a combination of Spring Break and every case I touch immediately entering mediation, so I left at about 3 each day to pick up Landon and hang out with my boys. Daycare pick-up remains one of the very best parts of my day- in fact, I have a potential post brewing about how daycare is really one of the best parts of my little family's life generally- and each day last week I would walk outside Landon's classroom (on nice days the kids are always outside; the teachers just transfer the materials for whatever art project and activity they have next to the tables outside) and watch him playing with his friends, usually racing around on a bike with his girlfriend, until he spotted me. He'd then launch himself off the bike with a happy cry of "mommeeee!" and run over for a big hug. That completed, he'd turn right around and run back to his bike and his friends and I'd spend 20-30 minutes trying to get him to leave with me.

But because I was so early, we didn't have to rush out the door. It was fun to linger in the yard chatting with his teachers and listening to their funny stories of Landon and his friends. We're so blessed with this neighborhood daycare center. The teachers really are fantastic and the way they tell stories about the kids reminds me of the way JP and I talk about Landon at night. Always half laughing, shaking our heads, and marveling at his quirks and the things toddlers say. And since we don't do many playdates because weekends are nearly sacred family time and he gets plenty of social time during the week, it was also really fun to watch Landon talk to and play with the other kids.

When I got tired of standing in the sand in my heels, I'd mention the snack I had waiting for him in the car and Landon would agree to leave. He had to hug every teacher and wave goodbye to all of his friends and then usually hug each teacher again, and then we could head to the car. I'm glad I got a window into his afternoon that I don't usually see. I love how much he enjoys "daycay" and his teachers and classmates (always referred to collectively as "my friends"). I love our dinner table conversation and the glimpses he gives us of his day- the shirt a friend wore, who sat by him at lunch, who didn't eat their lunch, or how fast he rode his bike outside (hint: very fast, always very fast). And I love his little daycarisms- like turning a book around to face me after "reading" each page aloud, just like I'm sure his teachers do at circle time, even though he's on my lap and I can see better when he leaves the book the way it is.

He's an affectionate little guy who loves to give hugs and whose new favorite thing is to "get cozy with you mama" (which means he sits on my lap on the couch with my arms around him). Toddlers don't (or can't) make much attempt to hamper their emotions which means that while you may get the full force of their unhappiness with the way their jacket zips up and touches their chin, you also get the full force of their love and zest for life. And Landon spends most of his time full of love and zest. He starts each day by announcing with excitement and pride that "I wake up!" - I think if I started my day that filled with a sense of accomplishment it would be very hard to ever be in a bad mood.

The way he makes me feel on a daily basis, and the way JP and I giggle about the things he's done or said when we go to bed at night, makes me understand why people who have kids talk so enthusiastically about parenthood even though it's hands down the hardest thing you'll ever do. I feel like we're in an oasis of easy right now - we're out of the physical rigors of newbornhood but not yet to the difficult line-drawing and emotional ups and downs of teen and pre-teenland. His needs are pretty simple, the boundaries are pretty easy (even if somewhat tiring) to (repeatedly) draw, and kisses and hugs still have magical powers. It's a very happy time and I wish I could sum it up in words to store away forever.

(showing off the necklace we made on Saturday;
a natural model, he felt this pose best showcased his creation)

Instead I can only write little anecdotes, like how he always tells Tex he's a "handsome boy" as he pats him on the head, something he must have picked up from me, though I didn't realize I said it so often. Or how delighted he gets when something matches (ex: his shirt, socks, and milk cup - what could be better?!), something I'm certain he picked up from me. And I can soak him up and be present every moment I'm with him, and then one day go back through and read my archives with a big smile on my face.

It's Like a Little Bit of HGTV

Hopefully that title doesn't get your expectations too high- this is going to be more like HGTV on a crash diet with bad lighting, no film crew, and a single very un-trained designer who took band in middle school just to avoid the disaster that would have been her in Art class. So, with that set-up, and if you're interested in these sorts of things, I'd like to show you a few pictures of our master bedroom.

This is what the room looked like 2 months after we moved in:

Too big, too bland, and too little furniture. The pieces we did have were a motley collection from childhood (my side table), craigslist (our bed frame and JP's side table), and college (our dressers). I kept our room for last because (1) hardly anyone sees it and (2) I wanted to do it right. We saved money for nearly 18 months and purchased a master bedroom set through Costco (I know, Costco? but it's really nice stuff and the set was nearly $1,000 cheaper than the other "discount" furniture places in Austin). During those 18 months I slowly purchased linens and other decor through Crate & Barrel sales and those giant Bed Bath & Beyond coupons you get in the mail every few weeks. We also painted and installed a new, much prettier ceiling fan (and by "we" I do not mean me).

The colors really never come across as well in pictures, but the walls are a soft silvery blue. My goal was to create a room that looked nothing like the rest of the house. I wanted it to be soothing and almost hotel like- a little retreat for JP and me. And I love it. We still have a few projects. There's a picture (a canvas JP bought on the banks of the Seine in Paris 6 years ago that we'd totally forgotten about until I cleaned out the closets two weeks ago) being framed at Hobby Lobby right now that will go up on one blank wall by the bed and a shelf on back order from West Elm that will go on the other (with a few accessories), but it's close. And of course we have a few baby items that are temporary additions to the room- the changing table in one corner and folded up co-sleeper in another. But it feels like a real grown-up's space and I still get a smile on my face every time I come in.

The bathroom was redone as well, though I forgot to get pictures of it. It has a slightly darker paint color (a grey with more blue in it) that looks great with our dark cabinets, brushed silver fixtures and accessories, and white towels and rugs. If only I could get JP to use the beautiful mirrored medicine cabinet I had him install instead of spreading his toiletries out on the counter. His brightly colored tube of tartar control toothpaste really messes with my aesthetic.

Pics of the nursery coming tomorrow!

28 weeks (measuring 31 weeks) and counting

The belly, it is growing. I am 28 weeks along which means my baby is officially viable with a "90% chance of entering Kindergarten with no ill effects from her premature birth." So you know, a nice bench mark, but she better not have any plans on exiting anytime soon. My perinatal nurse practitioner, whom I have come to love and will actually miss dearly once our weekly chats are over, is very pleased with my progress and lack of labor symptoms. My belly has been steadily measuring 2-3 weeks ahead, which she assures me is probably just evidence of a big baby, like her brother (who was 7 lbs. 7 oz. and 21 inches long at 5 weeks early, and my dates were right), and not reflective of the number of cookies I ate during the month of February (Valentine's AND my birthday; it's a month full of sugary landmines that I willingly throw myself upon).

Due to an unusual amount of free time at work, I've been very productive on the baby preparation front. Her beautiful birth announcement has been designed by my talented friend and awaits the insertion of details and pictures, and the addresses of family and friends have been gathered and printed out on labels. (Side note: when my friend sent me an image of the announcement I immediately started crying at my desk; I'm having a baby!) Her baby book has been purchased and the pages I can fill out ahead of time are done. I pushed JP up the stairs on Wednesday and Thursday nights to hang up everything in the nursery and it looks so pretty. I just need to get a curtain panel cut in half and re-sewn and then it will be complete! Landon loves to go in there and keeps sticking his toys through the slats in the crib "for the baby". We've also set up the new changing table in our bedroom downstairs, have the co-sleeper waiting in the corner, and the little changing table baskets filled with the necessary newborn accessories. Her closet is empty except for this adorable Swedish/Spring inspired dress which I saw while shopping for summer t-shirts for Landon and absolutely had to have, even if she won't wear it for another year:

I'm totally over the novelty of being pregnant, not that I was really into it the first time around. In fact I pretty much hate the whole process and believe me, if JP could grow a baby, he'd be the one wearing the elastic pants this time around. But having a baby who turned blue in my arms about 3 seconds after he was born and then spent 12 days in the NICU has given me an adjusted perspective and I'm grateful for every day my belly gets bigger, my belly button looks a little stranger, and my baby girl continues to appropriate most of my body's resources for herself. I may still complain, and at 35 weeks I may be superficially wistful when I remember that last time I was done right about then, but I will be grateful.

SoCo Field Trip

We rarely eat out of the house mid-week, and we even more rarely travel out of our neighborhood to the more Austin-y areas of Austin, but tonight I just spent the most lovely few hours with my boys on the fun and fabulous sidewalks of South Congress.

JP called on his way home from an afternoon swim lesson to ask if pizza sounded good for dinner. As he well knows, pizza ALWAYS sounds good, and since it was Spring Break and the weather was beautiful and I felt like being a little crazy, I suggested we head to Home Slice on Congress. Within an hour JP and Landon were waiting out in front of my office and together we headed to SoCo with all the windows down.

Because we are no longer hip and with it (though really, were we ever?), we'd completely forgotten that South by Southwest was going on, so the streets were packed and live music was coming from every direction. While walking from our car to the restaurant Landon paused in the middle of the sidewalk to throw up his hands, tilt back his head and dance. He was feeling the music- his feet were shuffling, his hands were waving, and several (probably intoxicated) SXSW'ers and St. Patty's Day parties stopped to clap for him. I really miss that total lack of self-consciousness that you have as a child.

After eating some of the best pizza in Austin, we continued on our way up Congress, listening to the music and stopping Landon from enthusiastically petting every dog we passed without asking the owner first (we're working on this, but the child fears no canine). We stopped at the Mighty Cone trailer for some seasoned fries (absolutely delicious- some of the best fries I've had in a while) as a post-dinner snack for the baby, and then stopped at Amy's Ice Cream on the walk back down for dessert for JP.

It was a perfect evening- the kind of Spring night that reminds why I don't hate living here even though ultraconservative nutjobs do things like remove Thomas Jefferson from history textbooks because they don't like that he coined the phrase "separation of church and state" (never mind that he's the AUTHOR of the Declaration of Independence and that whole separation thing is GOOD and IMPORTANT, especially if you are a religious person and the changes are so ideological and frequently factually incorrect that I am left embarrassed and stuttering by my home state for a whole new set of reasons). But back to my lovely evening.

Landon was so fun. We've really reached that point where he's such an easy, fun, and giving member of our family. Rather than just being happy to get through an evening out with a child in tow, the whole experience is really more enjoyable because he's there. We're about to screw this all up again for about two years by adding baby #2, but for now I'm just enjoying the fact that we can sit down at a pizza place without a single extra child-related item, order off a regular menu, watch Landon drink from a regular cup and eat off a regular plate, and laugh as he talks non-stop about his trip to the lake house and how "daddy went on the jetski but he went TOO FAST and it WASN'T SAFE and I didn't like it and I slept next to Uncle Egick and I was very quiet and he didn't wake up!"

We finished off the night by tucking a sleepy Landon into bed and then hanging up almost everything in the baby's room. JP was super excited to be wielding a hammer under my close supervision at 9:45 at night, but now the butterflies have taken flight and the room is nearly finished. Pictures soon, I promise.

New Project

About a week ago Sarah over at Harry Times asked if I'd like to be part of a mom-authored, mom-focused style blog. She'd invited several other women of varying ages, sizes, and backgrounds and hoped to get posts on stay-at-home styles, working styles, maternity styles, etc. I loved the idea, and even though I sometimes have a hard time getting posts written for my own blog, I signed on to the project.

Then I went away for 2.5 days to a lake house without consistent internet access and my inbox exploded with emails full of ideas and content from the enthusiastic contributors. It remains a work in progress (we're working on a background and I need to write my bio), but there are 29 posts already and my first one, "High-Heeled and Pregnant" went up today.

So if you'd like another way to waste time on the internet- and by waste I mean read fun things about clothes and other accessories, stop by! And let me know in the comments over there or here if there's anything particular you'd like me or someone else to write about.

Oh, and just to be clear, I will receive no compensation or other benefits from the style blog. Just like on Lag Liv, I will be paid in the enjoyment I get from writing and the new internet friends who bring their support and humor to the comments. Should I ever receive freebies or special offers I'll let you know, though so far I have always turned them down because I'm really only in this blogging thing for the community, the archives, and the writing itself.

Spring Break 2010

We kicked off JP's last spring break with a quick trip to my parents' lake house. Landon adores his Papa and Gigi and was SO EXCITED about the trip. We couldn't leave until after 1 since JP was taking a midterm, but Landon was very patient and helped me pack and clean the house all morning until finally at around 11:30 he had the brilliant idea that, "Mama and Landon can go in Mama's car! We no need Daddy."

When JP got home we threw our dogs, our bags, and our toddler into the car and took off for Livingston. We arrived about 5:30 and Landon immediately showed his puppy around the grounds.

The life vest was a new and mandatory accessory any time Landon stepped outside the house. With four dogs ranging from 55-95 lbs. running around him I was living in fear of hearing a splash in that deep, murky water. We had been trying to play up the awesomeness of the vest, so when I put it on him I exclaimed, "Landon you look so handsome!" Landon had already taken off towards the point, but he yelled back with a chipper, "Yeah, I know!"

On Saturday my dad made Landon a balance beam and he loved walking across it. It cracked us up that he'd only go one direction; hopping off the end and running back to the other side to start again. I think it's another daycare kid thing, kind of like how he tries to make the dogs walk in a line and lectures them on sharing and "being nice to our friends."

It was an absolutely gorgeous weekend and we spent a lot of time running around the yard, playing washers (pictured above; Landon was a proud member of the mens team, the expression on his face makes my day), eating, sitting, and beating JP at badminton (oh wait, that was just me). Now that Landon sleeps in a twin bed in a different room, rather than the pack and play right next to our bed, we could get some sleep and enjoy the trip so much more. My brother was home from college for the week so he and Landon were roomies.

Now, I try not to recreate too many "my toddler is so adorable" stories because I know every parent has their own, but I must share this one. We had told Landon not to get out of bed until my brother got up, figuring that while we wouldn't make him stay in the room until noon, maybe if he woke up really early he'd see Eric sleeping and go back to sleep himself. Well JP woke up around 7:30 and poked his head into the other bedroom to check on the boys. He found Landon half-sitting up in the bed, wide-awake, patiently waiting for Eric to wake up. Too sweet.

And while I would never have described Landon as a timid child - he threw his elbows around to walk with confidence amongst our crazy pack of labradors - he was very uncomfortable with the jet ski and the speed boat. He kept up a vigil whenever JP was out on the jet ski and would frequently yell out to me that "he's going too fast! he's got to BE CAREFUL!" Once, when JP did a fast turn and splashed up a bunch of water, Landon burst into tears because he thought daddy was falling. JP was not falling, which was good since the water was freezing, but he did go further out to do any additional tricks so Landon wouldn't see and get worried.

All in all it was a wonderful mini vacation. Our dogs are absolutely exhausted- they had to keep up with my parents' much younger puppies to constantly defend the property against birds, ducks, and other potential threats. Landon fell asleep so fast on the car ride home that his hand was still inside his little bag of crackers. I am also exhausted but unfortunately found out a memo that I thought was due mid-week was actually for a call with the client at 9 a.m. tomorrow morning, so I to work frantically from the moment we got home until just a few minutes ago to get it done. But it is finished and circulated and I can still feel my post-lake glow. I just wish I had the rest of the week off for Spring Break too!

Deep, Cleansing Breaths

I should start out this post by saying that JP doesn't read this blog. He could, of course, and I've even bookmarked it on his computer, thinking he should have easy access to anything a stranger in Minnesota might be reading about him. But when I asked him a few months ago if he ever read it he said no, not since Landon was born. Since that means I've written 32 months of posts that he hasn't seen, I asked why he didn't want to check to make sure I wasn't saying anything bad about him. He looked at me, wide eyed, and replied, "but what could you say?" An insufferable response if it weren't so true. He's a pretty awesome husband, dad, and best friend and I rarely have any complaints. The ones I do have- his passionate and time-consuming love affair with swimming, his dogged determination to forge an unconventional career path no matter how uncomfortable it makes me- these are frustrations I accept because even with them, he truly is the more giving half of this marital partnership. He's dragged himself out of bed on many a morning when it wasn't his turn and I can't say I've done the same. He's a keeper, even if he likes to soak pans that don't need it.

But I hung up on him today -- slammed the phone down in a desperate attempt to avoid screaming profanities into the receiver with my door open and my co-workers, the ones who remark that I'm always so cheerful and smiley, in hearing range.

You see I did our taxes back in January. I had one portion remaining, the one about any personal business deductions or expenses, and I've been asking repeatedly since January 20th for JP to look at it regarding the swim school. He finally told me on Friday that we didn't need to add anything about the company and I immediately filed the taxes that night. Then today he called to let me know that oh! he happened to read through all the papers the swim school's CPA sent him over a month ago and it turns out we're supposed to file something with our personal taxes and there's some deductions we can take and we're supposed to get an extra refund because the partners overpaid on their business taxes. Isn't that great?!

I should also add, just to complete the picture, that I had just spent 5 hours over 2 days and 4 phone calls battling with our insurance company to cover my weekly progesterone shots. The ones that will cost a total of $300 and should prevent another $55,000 NICU bill. And also, some of my other OB claims were submitted incorrectly, so it turns out I paid more than I should have, and it will take hours of phone calls to get reimbursed for them- and no one would have ever told me I overpaid if a co-worker hadn't happened to mention on Monday that certain categories of maternity costs are covered at 100% under our plan regardless of whether the deductible has been met. And I pay nearly $1,000/month for this insurance. And it is a good plan, and I'm grateful for it, but my god it should not be this hard to get the things I'm paying for paid for.

So it was not a good time for JP to cheerfully inform me that he had discovered the answer to the tax question I'd been asking him for 7 weeks, 4 days after I submitted our taxes. In fact, he is very lucky I hung up because otherwise I probably would have turned it into a fight the likes of which we haven't seen since 2003 when we broke up for 5 months.

I grabbed my keys and went out to run errands. I find them soothing because of their productivity and the ability they give me to cross things off my to-do list. I picked up this owl at Target for the baby's nursery:

and hugged it in my arms as I shopped around the store. I also got a fabulous pair of gold sandals at DSW for $9 after a bunch of coupons and found a changing pad cover in the perfect shade of green at Babies R Us.

I returned to my office feeling calm and re-centered. I no longer wish to physically harm my spouse. I have in fact spoken with him in a pleasant manner and told him about my stuffed owl and golden shoes (about which he was far more enthusiastic than normal), and informed him that he will fix the tax problem and I'm not going to remind him about it. It's not even going on my list. I'm just going to ask about it sometime in May and my god it had better have been done. But I love you! and sorry about the slamming of the phone thing. Let's get ice cream after dinner tonight, yes?

On Second Thought

maybe there's something to this nesting thing after all...

Lately I've been consumed by a need to DO THINGS. All things. Everything I can think of that could possibly need doing. I write out to-do list after to-do list, crossing off a few items each night and more on the weekends. I'm out of books to read, my work load isn't that heavy, and I can't sit still. Even JP, who is quite used to my to-do listing, remarked that I seemed a bit... unusual lately.

On the plus side, my house is looking beautiful. The baby's nursery is painted a very cheerful shade of yellow and all the linens from Land of Nod are so cute! My big challenge of the moment is locating a valance for the window. The one in the "Beautiful Morning" set is nearly the same shade of yellow as the walls and I think that's a bit much, but I'm having a terrible time finding something else. I perused the aisles of Buy Buy Baby yesterday and was amazed at all the infant things I've forgotten about.  Pacifiers (not that Landon ever liked them), mylicon drops (not that they ever seemed to help), and bottles (not that Landon liked the ones I bought first last time) -- there's so many things we need to stock back up on! We've also been setting up our master bedroom to house the baby for the first several weeks. We have a changing table that matches our bedroom furniture and an arm's reach co-sleeper that at least doesn't clash (a great craigslist buy). I have the table set up with baskets and a changing pad cover that matches our bedding and a box of itty bitty size 1 diapers. In the nursery I've framed my beautiful etsy prints and plan to make JP tackle the hanging butterflies next weekend. Everything is really coming together and I can't wait to get it all done and take pictures.

But baby stuff isn't the only thing on my lists. Our bedroom will soon have framed art on its walls (thanks to some discoveries during my massive spring cleaning last weekend) and I've ordered a gorgeous, abstract print of Chicago for my office. The books in our study are now in alphabetic order by subject and author. Landon's baby book is filled in with information (thank god for this blog- it contains the only existing record of his 12-month doctor appointment stats) and pictures, and for reasons that can only be explained by 26 weeks of pregnancy, I spent one night last week making a scrapbook page to be framed in Landon's big boy room. It's actually quite cute, with his birth announcement, two NICU pictures, and a sonogram shot, but it is decidedly not my normal kind of project. JP looked over at me at 10:45, surrounded by pinking shears, stickers, and scraps of paper and asked if we needed to talk. But I'm quite fine, just filled with a nearly frantic need to do things to complete every room of my house before the baby comes because she WILL care if one wall of my bedroom is missing just a little something to really finish the look.

In non-nesting news, I visited a co-worker, his wife, and their new baby girl today. I brought them chicken barley chili with all the fixings and spent a lovely hour smiling at their daughter and sympathizing with their sleeplessness and feelings of doubt. I'm getting pretty excited to do this again.  Terrified, but excited. This time I have the knowledge and a hazy memory of how hard and how bad it can be. But I also know how extraordinary that love is that you feel for your child and how very much fun he or she will become. I could write post after post about Landon right now, but there truly aren't words to describe how sweet and funny and chatty and charming and easy he is. I think it might be worth the sleepless year of a difficult baby to get this joyous of a toddler- if that's how the trade-off works, though maybe then it flips back and we get a bratty teenager? It's so hard to picture that after all the kisses and hugs and pretend tacos with ketchup he gave me today.

Man, I'm exhausted. I'm half-watching the Oscars and my mind keeps wandering over to the vanilla bean ice cream and fresh strawberries in my fridge. Surely all that organizing burned enough calories to justify a bowl?

Observation

While leaving daycare this evening:

Landon: Where is Matthew's daddy?
Me: Maybe he's at work?
Landon: Noooo, only mommies go to work!

A Place for Everything,

and after Sunday, everything is in it's place.

In a classic case of doing the "too much" I was warned not to do by my doctor, I cleaned and reorganized ALL of our closets on Sunday. Did you know we have 9 closets? We do! And now they are beautiful.

It all started because I spent Saturday morning going through Landon's old clothes to put into the new girly Ikea bins in the baby's room (we used the Trofast system instead of buying a real dresser for Landon's nursery in Chicago because we didn't have any money and I wanted to add as much color as possible to our white walled room, and we're continuing to use them because I found that bins were great for baby clothes- it's not like you can really fold a onesie, but we did have to spend $22 on new bins because the bright red, blue, and green ones were messing up my beautiful "you are my sunshine" color palette). So, I opened up Landon's "0-3 month" plastic tub of clothes and sorted through all the sleepers and onesies and itty bitty socks. Landon had fun too. Lately he's been obsessed with pictures of babyLandon (one word) and carries the "Landon's First Year" photo book I made on Shutterfly just about everywhere we go. JP went up to check on him one night last week and found him fast asleep with his chubby little cheek stuck to an open page of the book. So he recognized many of his little pj's and liked pointing them out by name. We'll see what happens when he finds the baby wearing them.

After that I decided to take out anything Landon-related from the nursery closet (except old clothes already organized into bins) and move it to the closet of his big boy room. Then I realized JP had a few things in the big boy closet, including a box of valuable baseball he'd thought were lost in the move, so those had to come out (much celebration and a lost hour of him telling me how much they're worth, even though I explained they aren't really worth anything unless you sell them, something I am told will never happen). Then I thought I should look at the things I threw into the guest room closet because one day that will be our little girl's room and she doesn't really need easy access to the Halloween decorations. This snowballed into me crawling back into our closet under the stairs and finding a giant box of stuff I packed from my childhood room before we got married and never opened through all our successive moves. And then I started rummaging through our other downstairs closets to gather up odds and ends that had been stuck in random places when we were unpacking. Soon there were bins, labels, permanent markets, and STUFF everywhere and I was in the midst of it all.

JP, seeing that he could do nothing to help the label-making frenzy I'd whipped myself into, decided to take the dogs and Landon on a long walk through the fields and forest near our house. By the time they returned the sun had set and I was sitting on the couch, in the dark, with a slightly spasming back and a giant, satisfied smile on my face.

Everything we needed to save or would use again in the foreseeable future had been placed into neatly labeled bins. Everything else was in a giant Goodwill pile in the kitchen. It was such fun going through most of it. I had several memory boxes spread around the house- one from college, dominated by love letters and other evidence of my courtship with JP, another from high school, filled with swimming ribbons and college scholarship letters, and two from the younger years- postcards from elementary school friends, treasures carefully selected and purchased from tourist traps on our many camping trips, and even a letter my grandpa wrote to me when I was in preschool.

It brought home again how important it is to commemorate the big events in my kid's lives. My parents were really, really good about that. I have the card my mom made me the morning of high school swim try-outs (a blue piece of construction paper with pinking-sheared edges, signed by each member of my family), the letter my mom and dad wrote to me the night before my first state swim meet, the "menu" for the fancy, four course dinner they hosted in our dining room for me and my friends when I turned 12. I'm so glad to have all those things safely packed in a plastic bin under my stairs and I look forward to a leisurely day in my retirement when I can go back through them and cry happy tears.

But for right now I'm taking it easy (my back is better as I've forced myself into flat shoes for the past two days) and resting securely in the knowledge that when I want to decorate for Easter I can open the closet, pull out the "Easter decor" bin, and proceed to bunnify the kitchen. I believe this is called nesting, but I'm not sure my post-organization high would be any different if I wasn't pregnant. I think it goes back to my love of cubbies in kindergarten- it's so delightful when every little object is in it's properly labeled home.