Thursday, May 1, 2008

Free Man, kind of

Yesterday was JP's last day of work as an investment banking analyst. He is now just a student waiting for school to start in August- well, that and a dad, husband, and to-do list task master. This morning I left a long list of phone calls and other things that needed to be done for the move and he called me at 11:30 with the list completed. I could really get used to this...

He then went to work out, stopped by the school to say hi to me, and picked up Landon at daycare (the little man doesn't have to say goodbye to his babies until next Friday). While things are going to be tight financially until I start work, and that adds no small amount of worry, we decided it was worth it for the overall stress reduction for me and the overall increase in happiness for him. It makes a huge difference for me to be able to stay at school past 4:30pm and to arrive before 9:30 (especially since I'm up at the crack of dawn anyway). And there's a reason analysts don't stay analysts for years on end if JP were single and carefree he would have been in business school long ago. This was our plan since before Landon was born and we've saved everything we could to make this summer possible- and we're young enough to completely deplete and then rebuild our savings, right?

Plus even with all the craziness of the move and the bar exam, and how obsessive I am going to be over our budget spreadsheet, I think this is going to be a really nice summer for us. We'll be at home together for probably the last time until we retire. We can take Landon to the park and the pool and JP can breathe a little before grad school. He's been working since a week after he graduated college and I'm glad he can relax. Well, as much as you can relax while caring for a 10 month old who has no need for sleep and a wife who is continually thinking of things for you to do...

Luckily Landon and I are benevolent bosses who pay handsomely in smiles and kisses, and I know JP is very pleased with his new position.

8 comments:

  1. Oh gosh, what a huge relief that must be! I know how stressed you've been with the huge to-do list and now you can focus on finishing school. Enjoy your summer! You have both earned it!

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  2. I'm jealous, too! Though looking forward to MY hubby's 2 weeks of leave coming up in July!

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  3. What an awesome opportunity. After all the hard work and craziness, you both deserve a nice relaxing summer (well, relaxing other than the bar exam, of course!).

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  4. wow...you get to have him all to yourselves for 2-1/2 months??? so jealous! enjoy! :)

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  5. My baby girl just turned one, so I was looking through old photo albums at my parent's house to find family baby pictures (my baby pictures) so I could see who she looked like the most. I found my brothers, me, my sister, my nieces, and LANDON! OK, actually, I found my nephew, but oh my gosh, I can't believe how much he looked like your baby! I actually had a brief, crazy moment where I thought it WAS Landon! Good news -- my nephew is now a cute-as-can-be 14-year-old, so as I'm sure you already knew, your future holds good things!

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  6. Awesome. RP is leaving work soon too. He's leaving a couple of months before we leave to take care of the baby while I return to work. (No rest for me until I take three weeks off between the end of my clerkship and the Firm) Isn't it awesome to have such a progressive and supportive husband? Lucky for him between my sisters, aunts, mother in law and parents, he won't be alone in his childcare efforts for more than a week at a time. Still, two gold stars for RP and JP!

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  7. Oh, that sounds heavenly...

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  8. awww, it does sound like a nice summer! I think you two made a smart decision to have more family time...think about how infrequently you get chances like that!

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