Saturday, January 4, 2025

Egypt Days 1-3: Travel, Cairo, and on to the River Nile

Hello and Happy New Year! We are BACK, our bodies are sort of on Central Time, and I am almost caught up on work emails. It's Saturday morning, we need to put away Christmas decorations, and some household object is letting out a loud beeping noise every 3 minutes that we can't find, so let's blog! It feels right.
Egypt was AMAZING. We loved it. This was the perfect time to go with the perfect age kids and I feel so lucky we got to see and do all that we did and that I have all these memories tucked up tight in my heart.
First, some background. I've kept a spreadsheet of trips we've done and trips we want to take since about 2010, and for these last few years before Landon goes to college, we've been prioritizing a couple of big ones. While of course we'll still see him after he graduates high school, he definitely wants to swim. And as former swimmers ourselves we know how little time we got at home during our college years. Christmas break is a critical time for training (championship meets generally happen in February) and we always had to report back well before New Year's. NCAA's is often over Spring Break and summer training is generally done with your team at your school. So if there's a trip we know we want all the kids to join, we're trying to do it before Fall 2026 (what/how/sob/etc). And since Landon is not a city guy (his opinion of NYC: "it's too much Mom."), there's a few specific adventures we wanted to do with him before he goes.
Like Egypt! It has long been on our list and research and stories from friends told me we'd need 10-14 days to do it properly. With summer temps hitting 120+ over there (no thank you; I already live somewhere way too hot), Christmas break was our only possible block of time. We hosted Christmas with my whole family last year, we'll do it again next year/Landon's senior year, and Cora admitted last year she knew that we were Santa, so 2024 was our year! I reached out to my dear friend Kaleigh at The Shameless Tourist last December to plan and one year later, we were off!
5 carry-on suitcases, 5 personal items, and 5 Lag Liv family members, ready for adventure.
We left on Saturday December 21st, which was a little tough since everyone had school and work through Friday the 20th, but we did our Christmas Eve on the 19th, Christmas Morning on the 20th, and were packed and ready by noon on the 21st when we left for the airport. Our first flight was Dallas to Frankfurt, Germany. About 10.5 hours, regular economy seats, no one slept, it was fine.
We had a 5 hour layover in Frankfurt (it was now Sunday December 22nd) during which everyone slept a few hours at some point. Then a 4.5 hour flight from Frankfurt to Cairo which was full and loud and in the oldest plane I'd seen in a long time, but we made it!
We were greeted by our Cairo guide, Mohammed, as soon as we got off the plane and he walked us through customs and the Visa process (I'd already applied online before we left) and then took us to our van and driver and rode with us to our hotel. The Conrad in Cairo was great! We had connecting rooms, the bathroom had a beautiful marble tub that made my tired traveling heart so happy, and the hotel had multiple restaurants that were all delicious and easy.
We ate dinner an the Egyptian one on the 3rd floor overlooking the Nile River and it was so good. We ended up eating there every night we were in Cairo and I still didn't get enough of their Grilled Haloumi Cheese, super fluffy Pitas, or perfectly crisp and seasoned Falafel (they make theirs with fava beans! All this time I thought I hated falafel, but turns out I just hate chickpeas, which I already knew but kept hoping would somehow become delicious in falafel form). After dinner we crashed hard because we had a 6:30 a.m. wakeup call to be up, pack, get breakfast, and then meet our Egytopologist guide Ayman in the hotel lobby at 7:30 a.m.
Day 3! This was supposed to be a lazy morning to recover from our flights before boarding yet another plan to Luxor to begin our Nile river cruise (we'll be coming back to Cairo to explore it post-cruise). But! The long-anticipated Grand Egyptiam Museum (GEM) is finally open (not all of it, but enough!) and Kaleigh asked if we wanted to get tickets and I said "of course!" and this was the only way to fit it in. I had some regrets when peeling my eyes open at 6:30 a.m., but I'm so glad we did.

The hotel breakfast gave Landon cartoon heart eyes and everyone was in shockingly good spirits as we met Ayman in our lobby with all of our luggage. Our driver (same one from the night before!) would be able to keep our luggage while we walked around the museum and then we'd all head to the airport for our short flight to Luxor.

But first, a note about Cairo. I did almost no research before this trip. I'm ashamed to say I didn't even realize that Cairo was such a huge city until we arrived to its bustling chaos. You guys, Cairo is an enormous city. NYC has approximately 8 million people. Cairo has 22 million. The traffic is INSANE. There are no lanes, there is no driving test, and there seem to be no real driving rules. People, bikes, tuk tuks, cars, dogs, trucks, and giant tour buses all just mesh together on 2-lane roads through this gigantic city and somehow it all just... works. Constant horn chatter between cars, spotless roads being swept continuously by civil workers, cars full of adults headed to work, everyone's windows down, shockingly few traffic incidents, and I never saw anyone looking mad at the constant cutting off and stop and go driving. It was fascinating and an experience all in itself. Everytime we'd drive somewhere the kids would ask how far away it was. The driver would give the distance and then say "but time? It's Cairo." and that was the answer.
On to the GEM! It is an architectural wonder. I generally don't take pictures inside museums- you're there to be there and if there's a particularly cool artifact there's pictures on the internet that are much better, so I keep my phone away and just soak it in. However, I took a handful here because the scale of the GEM is hard to comprehend and it is just beautifully done. Everything is well-lit, nicely described with plaques, and the employees are EXTREMELY vigilant about anyone potentially touching anything or breaking any rules. I loved it.
This statue of Ramses II is inside the entry area of the museum. It's inside! The statue is HUGE. It is also 3,200 years old. It used to just be in the middle of downtown and they moved it to the GEM only recently. Apparently they televised the transfer and millions watched its trek to its new resting place.
The museum has a ton of giant ancient statues and artifacts. The kids were so great about listening to the stories from our guide (who was awesome) and being engaged in all the history we were seeing. But we learned that Cora in particular loves a museum. The big kids like the guide, but as soon as he set us on our own they were pretty much ready to go, whereas Cora (and her dad) walks slowly from item to item, reading all its information, and pondering its history and existence. I think 11 years old is about the youngest I'd do this trip, and even then, I don't think Landon or Claire would have handled it nearly as well at that age as Cora did.
In another part of the museum our guide casually mentioned, oh if you look out the window you can see the pyramids. Egypt is amazing.
As we were wrapping up at the museum and getting ready to go to the airport for our 2 pm flight, we learned that Cora and my seats had been canceled by EgyptAir and rebooked (business class!) for an 8 pm flight. Our guide was apologetic, but there was nothing they could do. We were sad to have to split up, but as we told them, if this is the bigget wrinkle in our trip, that's pretty good.

Later it made me think how much the kids were looking to us as that news was conveyed and how glad I am that James and I are both equally good about rolling with whatever travel throws at us. I think it's one of my favorite things about him and it's why we've always been able to take big adventures with our kids since they were little. "Okay then, it is what it is," we both replied. The big kids looked a little concerned at having to go to the airport with only James- I'm not sure they had much faith in his ability to get them on a plane and off again to the right destination, but I wasn't worried.

We said goodbye as they headed to the airport and then Cora and I headed to a delicious fancy lunch the travel company had arranged for us!
After that we stopped at the Memorial to the Unknown Soldier. It was actually really fun to have a little day date with her.
Next up was the National Museum of Egyptian Civilization where all 22 mummies of the ancient pharoahs are now kept. I knew their mummification techniques were effective, but it was insane to see hair and teeth and cartilage of a body that is thousands of years old. Cora and I were simultaneously creeped out and fascinated and really enjoyed reading all about the pharaohs we were seeing. (No pictures of the mummies, but look at the colors on these sarcophaguses! These are so so SO old! Incredible.)
Meanwhile James and the kids got to Luxor without a hitch. A guide there picked them up and brought them to the Nile river boat that would be our home for the next 4 nights! The boys immediately worked out (they managed to bring stretch cords for the small pool in their little carry-ons) and Claire sat on the deck and texted me updates.
They ate dinner on the boat and let us know the food was good and our rooms were really nice.
As the night grew later, Cora and my flight was delayed (sigh) and James and the kids went into Luxor in search of additional food.
By 9 pm Cora and I were still at the airport and we were SO tired. I'd really been looking forward to an afternoon nap on the boat, but she was being such a trooper I kept my whining to myself (and my texts to James) and colored with her in her new coloring book. We finally got on our plane about 9:30 pm, landed in Luxor at 11 pm, were picked up by our guide and at the boat by 11:30 (Luxor is small and apparently has no traffic at 11:30 pm on a Monday!) and immediately saw James, Landon, and Claire waving to us from the rooftop deck! We had MISSED them!
We got on board and slept HARD for less than 5 hours before our next wakeup call at 4:30 am (sob) to see the Luxor temples before the cruise began!

Friday, December 20, 2024

Sparkly and Magical, 2024 edition

It's the night of December 19th and that is Christmas Eve in the Lag Liv house this year.
We leave for our trip on Saturday, we need to pack tomorrow, and Santa needs to come tonight so that he can deliver things the kids will need to pack. Pizza is ordered, Landon and the girls are wrapping up their respective swim practices (a post on swim traiming philosophy coming soon I promise!), and I am in my buffalo plaid on the couch watching Elf and banging out this blog post (almost! finished it Friday instead).
December has been its usual whirlwind of insanity, sugar, and sparkles.
We decorated super early, thank goodness, and it's been fun to enjoy the holiday lights in the morning as we go about our busy days.
Last weekend was our only semi-free weekend (and by "free" I mean Claire was babysitting Friday and Saturday nights, Cora had swim practice, Landon had swim practice, and we were hosting a party for Claire's whole high school swim team on Sunday night), so I decided we were doing our remaining precious traditions in the space in between those events.
I made sugar cookie dough Friday night after work.
On Saturday I baked the cookies after errands and before a few hours of work.
Cora is still my eager little helper and I love that for both of us.
Also on Saturday we decorated the upstairs family tree. It has all our beloved historial, commemorative, and handmake ornaments. Claire insisted this couldn't be done in daylight, so we did it when she got home from her Saturday night babysitting gig.
On Sunday I had a few hours of work and then we did our cookie decorating when Landon got home from practice!
One of my favorite things about December now is all the facebook memories each day showing us decorating cookies throughout the years with a whole range of tiny children. We started doing my childhood sugar cookies when Landon was 18 months old and continued every year since.
Making this year 18 of us doing cookies with our crew!
They are so so dang good. (The cookies, recipe here6 from my Swedish Great Grandma, but the kids are good too!)
Immediately after wiping the sugar off the table and vacuuming up sprinkles from the floor we got ready to host about 65 people in our house for Claire's high school swim team holiday party! We had a taco truck in the driveway and everyone brought desserts and drinks. It was pretty easy as far as hosting goes and a lot of fun. I finally met some of the parents and the kids did their White Elephant gift exchange upstairs in the gameroom. Man do I love having an upstairs gameroom.
By 9 pm everyone had left and we were all cleaned up and I pretty much passed out in bed.
It was actually a really nice weekend. We got the things that mattered to me done with our full crew present, holiday music coming through the speakers, and our favorite Christmas movies on TV.

On the non-holiday side of things, here are Cora and James at her last Cotillion class Monday night. We had completely forgotten about it until I was out with some of my favorite badass Dallas lawyer moms and saw two girls walk by our table in sparkly dresses with dressed up dads. "Oh my god is Cotillion tonight? The one with parents?" I texted James under the table. "Yep. Shit."
But within 30 minutes he and Cora were ready to go and James got to dance the waltz with his Cora bunny and see how she can shake hands with eye contact and a nice introduction of herself. She also learned about formal table placesettings and some other general etiquette stuff. Cotillion success!
I took Maggie on a walk- she loves a chilly weather day- and she stopped to smell every flower. She is so wise.
Meanwhile Milo is forever hopeful he will get a bite of his human brother's dinner. This has never happened, but for Milo food-related hope springs eternal.
He's also just the snuggliest bestest cat.
And he knows it.

Since I didn't get this finished last night I might as well share some "Christmas" pictures too!

It was actually a lovely little night. We ate pizza, changed into pajamas, turned on the fire, and did our usual youngest-to-oldest gift opening order.
We opened gifts from my sister over Thanksgiving and we're doing our exchange with my parents and brother and his wife when they come to Dallas after we return, so last night was just gifts from our little family. The kids bought each other some thoughtful things and from us Landon got a tech suit (speaking of swimming, those things are crazy expensive and didn't exist when I was swimming; he's gotten one for Christmas for the last 3 years), Claire got Ugg booties, and Cora got an Instax camera.
Christmas morning involved a very awake Cora who had to go to school, and a very asleep Landon and Claire who didn't (neither had any finals today), all gathering on the stairs so they could walk out to the living room together.
Because we did our "big" gifts last night, this morning was just stockings, which is so fun.
Coincidentally many gifts had to do with international travel, like adapter plugs and compression socks. And of course some purely fun stuff too.
And that's our little Lag Liv family Christmas! Cookies, gifts, pajamas, traditions, sparkles, and love. And tomorrow- adventure!
Happiest Holidays to you and yours, I'm so grateful I still find moments to write and far more grateful you're still here to read.

Saturday, December 7, 2024

From the Stands of a Swim Meet

I'm sitting in the stands of a swim meet in Garland, Texas waiting for Landon to swim his second event in finals tonight. I spent last night on a freezing cold soccer field watching Cora's first game of a 5-game tournament in Allen, Texas, and while she played great and there's something magical about a night game, it is a bit less sparkly and magical when it's 40 degrees out, very windy, and you spent your week not sleeping in DC and very much wanted a Friday night on the couch and/or in bed.
But, such is the world of youth sports! We've actually been pretty measured in our approach. Landon didn't start club swimming until 7th grade, which is considered quite late (James and I have a different opinion than most on how early you should do club). Cora still hasn't started club soccer and instead has a great rec team that costs $150 and has one practice a week (compared to $4,000 and 3+ practices/week). Claire is just swimming with her high school right now and her only extracurricular is math tutoring.

And yet, there have been zero minutes spent in front of a Christmas movie with a fire roaring in the fireplace on this freezing rainy weekend, so somehow, we're still not exactly winning.

But the kids are!

Cora's team won their game last night, tied their game this morning, and won their game tonight that was played in freezing rain. The girls had a blast; James's one and only text report to me was "Miserable.". Not sad this is the first session of Landon's meet I switched out with James to attend.

Landon is going all best times so far at this meet, which is GREAT given that college swim recruiting has already started. He's talked to a few coaches, but he's not quite fast enough to catch the eye of the schools he really wants (all NCAA Division 1 Top 8, which would be, in order: Texas, Arizona State, Indiana, Florida, California, NC State, Georgia, Stanford, etc.). Being recruited by one of them is a tough but realistic goal for him and he's getting closer every meet!

Claire spent last night babysitting, all day today with a friend (they walked to get their nails done at a salon near our house, and so the babysitting money is already gone), and is babysitting much of the day tomorrow. Really a perfect weekend for her.

The cell service at this natatorium doesn't like me, so we'll see what my hotspot lets me upload... I have 8 more events before Landon swims his 100 back.

10 days ago we were driving to Boulder, Colorado to spend Thanksgiving with my sister and her family and my parents. We arrived late Wednesday night and Thursday morning found my sister and me at a HIIT class that nearly killed me. The altitude combined with a solid week away from the gym (life has been crazy; my workout streak is long gone) was ROUGH, but it felt great, especially after 13 hours in the car and before the amazing meal we were about to prepare.
We started the day with a charcuterie that the kids ate as fast as I could cut things to arrange on the board I got my sister for an early Christmas present.
The kids (her girls are ages 3, 5, and 8) had a blast together as always. Mine adore having their young cousins to play with and the little cousins love their bigs. I'd gotten the girls art stuff for Christmas so MUCH art-making was done, along with snow ball fights, an attempt at a snow man, a game called lava that I never fully understood in the basement, and more. It was so great.
Cooking for our crew required the recruitment of a bucket for the mixing of the stuffing, which is totally normal and not at all weird.
My brother in law smoked one turkey and deep fried another and they were so perfect. Oh, he and Landon also ran to the store for more butter and accidentally came home with a honey-baked ham, so we had that too.
I contributed a butter turkey all the way from Dallas. I worked very hard on (buying) him.
I also helped with all our sides. I am an excellent chopper and find uniform cuts very soothing.
The meal was absolutely delicious. Kids and adults agreed!
The rest of the weekend was more kids playing, a great hike, my sister, mom and I working out EVERY DAY (two pilates reformer classes in a row was like an early Christmas present for me; LOVE THEM), playing cards, more basement lava game for the kids, and more cooking and eating.
Oh we also played cards and for the first time in my LIFE I got beat at multiple rounds of Blitz, which was horrifying. I blame the Altitude. I did win a round by the end, so I don't have to hang up my blitz pile forever.
Also, my sister adopted a feral cat named Simon from their local TNR program. Simon was supposed to be too feral to come indoors, so he was going to help keep mice out of their barn in exchange for food and a safe and cozy indoor space (in the barn) for him to use when the weather got too rough. But a few months into his apprenticeship, Simon decided he wanted to be an indoor cat after all. And here he is, purring up a storm with Landon, who was talking to him about important cat things I'm sure.
On the last night we went to the Denver Botanic Gardens for their holiday lights exhibit and it was absolutely wonderful.
A crisp cold night, beautiful lights, and 6 happy cousins.
It was a perfect finale.
Claire's face in the picture I got of James and I kissing under the mistletoe is just the cherry on top.
We drove home Sunday and dove into work/school/life Monday morning. The reentry was a little rough but everyone got to school on time, in clean clothes, and with a packed lunch.

I flew to DC on Tuesday for work and came back Thursday night. It was a VERY busy 3 days, I had one client event (that I was hosting) that started at 9 pm and that is past the time I'm supposed to be in pajamas. I rallied, but y'all, I am tired.

I did enjoy my outfits, all of which involved items I've owned for at least a year, and mostly more, but which I hadn't paired this way. Reason one million Bonnie has changed my life, she works magic with what I own:

Tuesday: WWCDA Annual Awards Gala, pre-parties and after-parties with vendors and clients. (Those are my Grandma Mary's shoe clips! Love them for some added sparkle on my Rothy's.)
Wednesday: Video calls, working from the DC office, lunch with a contact, the DC office litigation group holiday party, and a V&E client/contact party for after the ACI FCPA conference.
Thursday: More calls and working from the DC office, a breakfast/coffee trip with some junior associates, a DC office partner lunch, and the flight back home which I had to do in my boots because I couldn't finangle them back into my little suitcase. I'd worn the cap off the heels, so they're being fixed at the cobbler as I type.
And that's it! Here's my ensemble today - it's soccer/swim meet cozy chic.
And they're announcing Landon's heat! Go Lanman! Swim fast! And not just because I want to go home and put on pjs and sit by the fire!