That's right, we're going back to Egypt! We left off on the day we saw the great pyramids live and in person and they were absolutely everything I hoped they'd be. I read some travel blog posts before we left and a lot of them were pretty down on Egypt, finding it dirty or unimpressive in person. Everyone gets to have their own opinions of their travels, but I can say conclusively that we absolutely loved it and have hyped it up so much that my parents are now going next year. So I'm glad I stopped reading the blogs and just dove into the experience with optimism and the knowledge that the five of us always have fun together, even if plans don't work out like we hoped (like when Cora and my flight got canceled to Aswan on Day 2 and we rolled with it and had great days anyway).
So, Day 9! This was our last day in Cairo and our final day of "learning things" on this trip.
It began with a leisurely breakfast (pretty sure this meant it was after 6 am, but probably still before 7?) at our hotel breakfast buffet, which is one of the best I’ve ever seen. We stayed at the Hotel Conrad in Cairo and it was absolutely fantastic. Great rooms, great facilities, GREAT food with a giant buffet breakfast and multiple on site restaurants for dinner (we loved adventuring each day but also loved the option to just stay at the hotel by the time dinner rolled around), and great service.
We met our guide and driver in our lobby and drove off to the Museum of Egyptian Antiquities! It hadn't opened yet, but there was already a LONG line to get in. Built in 1897 by an Italian architect (the kids noted it looked like the museums we saw in Italy), the Egyptian Museum in Cairo is home to over 100,000 Egyptian artifacts over two floors, including the very famous Tutankhamun exhibit.
Even though King Tut was actually a pretty inconsequential pharaoh who died young, I feel like every school child knows his name and it was AMAZING to see his headdress, 450 lb solid gold coffin, incredible jewelry and accessories, and more in person. You aren’t allowed to take pictures so you just have to soak it in, which I loved, though does seem funny when going back through pictures and realizing one of the coolest things we saw isn't in the folder. It was every bit as ornate and gold-crusted as I imagined it would be. We are so lucky his tomb was found undisturbed in the Valley of the Kings- seeing its contents gives such a jaw-dropping view into what they all must have been like.
What was most interesting to us about the museum was how underwhelming it was? The King Tut room was amazing and the museum is crammed with treasures (also people; the most crowded experience of everything we’ve done in Egypt besides maybe Valley of the Kings), but even the King Tut room itself is very small, dark, and dusty. The rest of the museum is pretty spread out, but it's like walking around in a forgotten old attic.
Things are dusty, unlabeled, and piled together in hallways and on top of random pieces of furniture. There’s little lighting or no fanfare. James loved the treasure-hunting nature of it all, but I’m glad many of the items are being moved to the new GEM we saw on our first day. These precious treasures deserve context and lighting and space! Or maybe I just love an informational plaque? But still, our 2 hours there flew by.
Next up was Coptic Cairo! As our guide explained, the Coptic Orthodox (Christian) Church was established by the apostle Mark in Egypt in the 1st Century.
The Hanging Church, built in the 3rd Century, is particularly famous and believed to be where the Holy Family took refuge during their flight into Egypt.
It was fascinating to:
(1) not be at all impressed by dates that would have blown our minds prior to the trip (42 AD! Before the Roman Colosseum! But thousands of years after my pyramids so meh?); and
(2) to see the combination of ancient Egyptian and Islamic influences in the architecture and decor of the ancient Christian church.
We ate lunch at a local restaurant.
We really enjoyed the food in Egypt! Lots of yummy rice, grilled meats or falafel (I was OBSESSED with the falafel; I never liked it much because I don't like chickpeas, but in Egypt they make it with fava beans and it is SO much better and fluffier), grilled veggies, pita, and lots of dips. Oh and always a bowl of chicken soup. It was great and we always felt very satisfied but never heavy.
After lunch we stopped at the Citadel of Salah El Din (built in the 12th century, which is like SO recent) and the Mosque of Mohammed Ali (built in 1830, which might as well be yesterday).
It was our first time in a mosque and we found it incredibly beautiful.
You need to remove your shoes or cover your feet to enter and there are shoe covers provided. Covers that James and Landon's toes broke through a few minutes in due to the big athletic shoes on their giant size 13 feet, so they heel-walked back to the doorway.
All the places were visited were beautiful and rich in history and I’m glad we got to see this more “modern” side of Cairo. Also, you can see the pyramids from the top of the Citadel, which is such a trip.
Will never get over seeing those guys pop up in my view/camera lens.
The mix of old, new, sacred, and crowded was one of my favorite things about the city. We really, really enjoyed our time there.
Finally, we went to the Grand Bazaar of Khan El Khalili, one of the oldest markets in the world.
It is a maze of shops, scents, and merchandise. I’m SO glad we had our guide because I’m not sure we would have ever found our way out by the end.
Claire got a little lantern for her bedroom at the store in the above picture and it's beautiful. Our guide had a code with us - if we were interested in buying something and got the price from a merchant, if it was a bad price or product he'd say, "it's up to you." If it was a good price and something unique or well made he'd say "sure, yes, I like it." The lantern is the only thing we bought, but it was fun to look!
One other note on everywhere we went in Egypt- there were often loose dogs and cats running around, but we found them all to be pretty healthy and well-fed. Our guide told us cats are indoor "family pets" and dogs are "for outside." The cats did seem to be particularly well cared for, but even the "outside" dogs seemed to have food and water and care. Many had number tags which meant they were fixed and had their vaccinations. All were friendly and seemed to dodge the crazy traffic with ease and were generally received in good humor from the drivers and pedestrians alike.
At some of the temples we had to say things like "you have to listen to the guide for 5 more minutes and then you can go pet all the cats" or "you can pet one dog but then you need to come listen." It was an interesting negotiating point.
Once back at the hotel after our adventures in the non-ancient part of Egypt, the girls chilled outside, I sat on our balcony to read, and Landon and James went to work out. This fit all of our presonalities really. I snapped a picture of Landon swimming from our room.That's the Nile river you can see on the right.
James and I ate dinner at our favorite Egyptian restaurant on-site while the kids ate at the American restaurant one floor down (also on-site), as had become our tradition. I still miss the little bowl of veggies and olives and chewy cheese they brought when you first sat down and I will craze grilled haloumi cheese every day forever (I actually just had some at a Dallas mediterranean restuarant the other day and it was so good).
We went to bed early because the next morning we had to be up at 3 am to fly to the beach at Sharm el Sheikh where we would have absolutely nothing to do for our last 3 days!
Thanks for coming along with me!
Tuesday, April 22, 2025
Friday, April 11, 2025
Hi.
I've missed y'all.
I've been busy at work, busy at home, happy with friends, engaged in my reading, deeply crazy in love with my husband, really enjoying my kids, depressed as fuck about our predictable descent into fascism, trying to exercise and eat well and drink less wine, failing at the wine (see fascism), doing well with the exercise, and doing okay with the food. I've been watching The Pitt (OBSESSED. I've watched the 6:00 episode about 6 times) and the new season of Top Chef while I walk on my treadmill. I've been reading- mostly re-reading because I feel like I've read every good romantasy book there is, but occasionally also trying a new one.
I've been with my family - really just WITH them. Tonight after work I baked a carrot cake from scratch for my dad's birthday (we're driving to Houston on Saturday) and while I hand-grated an entire bag of carrots we were watching The Mighty Ducks 2 and all just chatting and laughing and Landon was doing my dishes as I dirtied them and Cora and Claire were drying them and we were heating up leftovers because who can make dinner when you're also baking a cake and it was just... it was perfect. I mean, it's not, but it is and I've just been LIVING in our day to day so much I never seem to open my personal computer. But I've missed y'all. (Maggie has too.) I've given myself 15 minutes for a quick update, because while I've been doing all of the above, I've also been sleeping 8 hours almost every night. Every since I got my anti-anxiety dosage right about 2 years ago I've learned that sleep is the most wonderful thing in the world and all my claims of "I don't need much sleep" were actually some absolute anxiety-disordered bullshit.
Sleep is the best.
James and I are usually in bed before the kids, high-fiving each other and yelling at the big kids to bring us their phones (they charge in our room) and to make good choices about going to bed themselves. Sometimes I have to work late, and that's fine, but most nights, I'm in bed with lights out by 10 pm and I'm not sure I've ever felt this grounded. Bedtime is the best time. It just took me 40 years to figure that out. [Quick break because Cora wanted me to braid her hair before bed, because apparently we're in the Victorian era.] Let's see random notable things from the past month:
I had another styling appointment and Ayron (Bonnie's protege, now my stylist) made beautiful outfits with clothes I already own. I do so little shopping now. I think I had added one new pair of pants and a short sleeved sweater in the previous 3 months before Ayron came. I'm still wearing daily the basics I bought with Bonnie in the spring of 2022 and adding a fun new item every now and then. My firm partner retreat was last week and I love shopping in my closet for great things to wear to the various programming, knowing that I have a good wardrobe base to pull from. There was an official photographer and there are like 15 pictures of me getting fitted for a cowboy hat. Hilariously I never wear hats, and certainly not cowboy hats, but I look VERY SERIOUS about my cowboy hat fitting in the series of photos. And I did enjoy the hat I ultimately chose! I wore it to a fancy steakhouse dinner on the last night and I really vibed with the black hat energy. I also learned American Mahjong at the retreat and I am now obsessed. It is SO hard and I also took it VERY SERIOUSLY. I played 4 games and focused SO MUCH and never won any, but I immediately bought my own set anyway when I got home. I now need people to play with. And a tutor because it's possible I've forgotten what I learned. Also at the retreat I took a picture of the top of my head for no reason I can recall and was shocked, absolutely GOBSMACKED, to discover I had gray hairs all over it. I immediately texted James to blame him for not telling me. He's 7" taller than me- how could he not have noticed? The very next day I was in the chair of my fancy friend's hair colorist and he magically matched my hair so that we only dyed the first 2" inches off my scalp and nothing else and I LOVE IT. I now look exactly like what I thought I looked like and that's exactly what I wanted. So I'm a person who dyes her hair now. I already have my next appointment booked. Turns out, it's a fairly regular thing.
The kids! The kids are so good. Swimming, schooling, soccering, banqueting, etc. On Wednesday night we were eating dinner on our screened-in patio and everyone was chatting and laughing and there was a moment when I just reached for James's hand under the table and held it and squeezed it and thought, this is everything I wanted my life to be. There is so much love and teasing and stories and LIFE at this table. And we built this, him and I, and I'm so grateful for every bit of it. Our 20th wedding anniversary is this fall and while I have always found my marriage to be the easiest aspect of my life, we have also certainly had some really tough times, especially when our kids were very young and we were so unbelievably tired and felt so alone and the road felt so long and now- now, I have these awesome teenagers and this closeknit family and I wish I could have told my exhausted 24-year-old self that while holding a tiny angry baby Landon and trying to graduate law school.
We do Forced Family Fun Time on Sundays (starting at 4 pm you must be home; no friends can be over; you have to be in the main family room/kitchen area; no phones) and this Sunday I decided the kids needed to learn Blitz (the greatest of card games) and Landon was so terrible. And he's so good at almost everything that this was a real learning experience for him. At one point he was just frozen in place, eyes glazed over, as he watched all the cards and hands fly around the table, and I just burst out laughing. I want to freeze everything all the time. How can he possibly go to college in a little over a year? Cora and I played Battleship and she employed Milo as a teammember/spy and it worked because she beat me soundly, so next time he's on my team. And my time is up. Off to bed with my current book (Lady of Shadows, #2 in a series. #1 was kind of a slog but #2 is picking up!) and at least one cat. I hope that you're all doing well and able to find your own little pockets of joy. (And if you have any book recs, let me know!!)
I've been with my family - really just WITH them. Tonight after work I baked a carrot cake from scratch for my dad's birthday (we're driving to Houston on Saturday) and while I hand-grated an entire bag of carrots we were watching The Mighty Ducks 2 and all just chatting and laughing and Landon was doing my dishes as I dirtied them and Cora and Claire were drying them and we were heating up leftovers because who can make dinner when you're also baking a cake and it was just... it was perfect. I mean, it's not, but it is and I've just been LIVING in our day to day so much I never seem to open my personal computer. But I've missed y'all. (Maggie has too.) I've given myself 15 minutes for a quick update, because while I've been doing all of the above, I've also been sleeping 8 hours almost every night. Every since I got my anti-anxiety dosage right about 2 years ago I've learned that sleep is the most wonderful thing in the world and all my claims of "I don't need much sleep" were actually some absolute anxiety-disordered bullshit.
Sleep is the best.
James and I are usually in bed before the kids, high-fiving each other and yelling at the big kids to bring us their phones (they charge in our room) and to make good choices about going to bed themselves. Sometimes I have to work late, and that's fine, but most nights, I'm in bed with lights out by 10 pm and I'm not sure I've ever felt this grounded. Bedtime is the best time. It just took me 40 years to figure that out. [Quick break because Cora wanted me to braid her hair before bed, because apparently we're in the Victorian era.] Let's see random notable things from the past month:
I had another styling appointment and Ayron (Bonnie's protege, now my stylist) made beautiful outfits with clothes I already own. I do so little shopping now. I think I had added one new pair of pants and a short sleeved sweater in the previous 3 months before Ayron came. I'm still wearing daily the basics I bought with Bonnie in the spring of 2022 and adding a fun new item every now and then. My firm partner retreat was last week and I love shopping in my closet for great things to wear to the various programming, knowing that I have a good wardrobe base to pull from. There was an official photographer and there are like 15 pictures of me getting fitted for a cowboy hat. Hilariously I never wear hats, and certainly not cowboy hats, but I look VERY SERIOUS about my cowboy hat fitting in the series of photos. And I did enjoy the hat I ultimately chose! I wore it to a fancy steakhouse dinner on the last night and I really vibed with the black hat energy. I also learned American Mahjong at the retreat and I am now obsessed. It is SO hard and I also took it VERY SERIOUSLY. I played 4 games and focused SO MUCH and never won any, but I immediately bought my own set anyway when I got home. I now need people to play with. And a tutor because it's possible I've forgotten what I learned. Also at the retreat I took a picture of the top of my head for no reason I can recall and was shocked, absolutely GOBSMACKED, to discover I had gray hairs all over it. I immediately texted James to blame him for not telling me. He's 7" taller than me- how could he not have noticed? The very next day I was in the chair of my fancy friend's hair colorist and he magically matched my hair so that we only dyed the first 2" inches off my scalp and nothing else and I LOVE IT. I now look exactly like what I thought I looked like and that's exactly what I wanted. So I'm a person who dyes her hair now. I already have my next appointment booked. Turns out, it's a fairly regular thing.
The kids! The kids are so good. Swimming, schooling, soccering, banqueting, etc. On Wednesday night we were eating dinner on our screened-in patio and everyone was chatting and laughing and there was a moment when I just reached for James's hand under the table and held it and squeezed it and thought, this is everything I wanted my life to be. There is so much love and teasing and stories and LIFE at this table. And we built this, him and I, and I'm so grateful for every bit of it. Our 20th wedding anniversary is this fall and while I have always found my marriage to be the easiest aspect of my life, we have also certainly had some really tough times, especially when our kids were very young and we were so unbelievably tired and felt so alone and the road felt so long and now- now, I have these awesome teenagers and this closeknit family and I wish I could have told my exhausted 24-year-old self that while holding a tiny angry baby Landon and trying to graduate law school.
We do Forced Family Fun Time on Sundays (starting at 4 pm you must be home; no friends can be over; you have to be in the main family room/kitchen area; no phones) and this Sunday I decided the kids needed to learn Blitz (the greatest of card games) and Landon was so terrible. And he's so good at almost everything that this was a real learning experience for him. At one point he was just frozen in place, eyes glazed over, as he watched all the cards and hands fly around the table, and I just burst out laughing. I want to freeze everything all the time. How can he possibly go to college in a little over a year? Cora and I played Battleship and she employed Milo as a teammember/spy and it worked because she beat me soundly, so next time he's on my team. And my time is up. Off to bed with my current book (Lady of Shadows, #2 in a series. #1 was kind of a slog but #2 is picking up!) and at least one cat. I hope that you're all doing well and able to find your own little pockets of joy. (And if you have any book recs, let me know!!)
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