Thank you everyone for such sweet comments on my post about Milo. It was such a hard day, and when we got home we had to finish packing and get in our Uber to the airport. Before we left I talked to the kids about how it's okay to feel two things at once - you can be super excited for our trip and that doesn't betray your sadness about Milo. And in the middle of enjoying our trip, it's also okay to have moments where you're really sad about Milo. We have room in our hearts and our brains for both. I didn't want them to feel guilty for being happy, and I didn't want the to feel like they had to hide moments they were thinking about our sweet boy.
Once we got to the airport, I revealed to James and the kids that I had upgraded us to the first class QSuites on our first (14 hour) Qatar Airways flight!! I received the offer to ugprade two days prior, for about 1/20th of the original cost to buy a first class ticket, and, inspired by my dad and how he loved surprising us with special treats when the budget allowed, I decided to go for it. This would be our longest flight ever, on our most anticipated trip ever, and neither James nor the kids had ever flown first class before, and I hadn't since my pilot-Uncle got us space-A seats on Delta for a trip to Hawaii to celebrate my sister's high school graduation in 2004.
It was awesome.
I'm so, so glad I went for it, even before I knew what an emotionally draining day we'd end up having before we left.
The kids and I had a "family quad" where you could put down the walls between our little "suites" and see each other and chat.
The food, which you could order on demand, was incredible. The wine list was amazing.
The lie-flat seats were so great that everyone slept for at least 7 hours and woke up refreshed and ready to order some a la carte breakfast.
I would say, "I'm not sure we can go back," except that, we were immediately back in coach for our 10 hour flight from Doha to Cape Town. It was... not as nice.
I'm super sad to think about our 8 hrs + 16 hrs flights home that will very much be in the back of the plane, but happy we got to experience that kind of luxury at least once! And glad it was on the way here. It really helped us arrive feeling pretty good.
The Doha airport was also awesome.
We there for 5 hours, from 9 pm to 2 am Doha-time. We mostly hung out at a big table in the food court, but we also walked through the botanic garden and along a hanging bridge covered in lights.
James and Landon went to the pool and did a swim practice.
Because that's what you do when you're crazy and it's midnight in Doha.
Our second flight was long, but not terrible. We landed in Cape Town at about 11 am and were met in our terminal by our guide. Customs was a breeze- apparently only 1 flight was landing that morning, and all 5 of our duffel bags made it back to us. (We never check luggage, so it makes me very nervous to be separated from my bag. But we have to have soft-sided duffels for the intra-Africa flights, so carrying those around the airport seemed un-fun and we checked them.)
We got to the hotel about 1 pm and our rooms were ready, which was great. We decided we could all do a short nap and then get up to walk the Victoria & Alfred waterfront to find dinner.
James and my room was decorated for our 20th anniversary which was so sweet.
The kids had a separate room (yet another big kid bonus) and we all went to sleep for 2 hours and met back in the hotel lobby at 4.
Mildly refreshed, we all walked to the waterfront which was lovely!
Beautiful views of Table Mountain and the water.
We ate at Karibu, which was delicious, and enjoyed the exchange rate from Rand to the US Dollar. (For example, my glass of excellent wine was 65 Rand which is $3.61.)
We walked back to the hotel after dinner and I think we were all asleep in our rooms by 8:30. We loved what little we got to see of Cape Town and were excited for the morning when we'd drive the whole cape!
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